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May 14, 2018

6 Simple Sex Tips – No Fluff

There are many ways to seduce your partner and eroticize your relationship, but sometimes a few simple changes can do the trick. This list will definitely entice you to skip dinner and go straight to bed. Check it out!

Use lots of lube and feather-light touch! Your dextrous fingers will feel just like a tongue if you slather them in lube and stroke with barely-there pressure. If you have trouble controlling yourself, use only the backs of your fingers. Since you have ten fingers, you can simulate “licking” with more than one tongue at once all over your lover’s hottest parts to rile them into a frenzy! My favourite is Astroglide’s Ultra Gentle Gel which is perfect for stroking, licking, teasing and grinding alike.

Take out the We-Vibe Pivot for a test-drive. This powerhouse vibrating ring is unlike any other I’ve ever tried. Its texture is silky soft and you can adjust it to vibe against various hot spots according to your preference.

Eat cherries! They’re a source of melatonin, the hormone that helps with circadian rhythm regulation to promote a restful night’s sleep. Sleep is essential to a happy relationship and a healthy sex life and after a good sleep, your energy levels, mood and libido are bolstered. Sleep also offers cell regeneration benefits and is associated with lower levels of anxiety — all of which support sexual enjoyment and performance.

Be selfish! Many of us are so obsessed with performance that we’ve let our own pleasure take a back seat and it’s time to switch things up. Ask for what you want. Take what you want. Don’t be shy! Your partner will be all the more turned on by your confidence.

Talk about sex. Watch TV and movies that depict relationship scenarios and sexual scenes and start a conversation based on what you see. Ask your lover what they think, how they feel and what they’d like to try based on what you see on-screen.

Initiate more! If you tend to wait for your partner to initiate sex, you need to push your comfort zone and surprise them with your best seduction moves. Some more info here. You can use whatever you’d like from this piece.