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December 21, 2015

Last Minute Sexy Gift Ideas

Sometimes the Holidays can sneak up on you and you find yourself in the mall, scrambling to find the perfect present for your special someone. Fear not; you are not alone. Don’t let the pressure of the impending holiday get you down. It’s the thought that counts. Consider the following ideas for the person on your nice or naughty list.

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Give the gift of chocolate! Chocolate is a great way to show that you care about someone and many times, it is already packaged for you. Not only is chocolate a great way to sweeten your sweetie’s heart, it is also a great mood enhancer. Chocolate contains the compound PEA (phenylethylamine) which is responsible for releasing the same ‘feel good’ endorphins that happen during sex. Chocolate has come a long way from a humble candy bar. There are so many variations available on the market ranging from distinctly artisanal to sultry and extra dark. Search the internet or visiting your local chocolatier for the ultimate sweet gift.


A massage is the perfect gift for your special someone. Create a DIY coupon that is redeemable through you and let the romance begin. If the bedroom is where the action is taking place, be sure to set the mood. Consider low light and soft music playing in the background. You want this to be as relaxing as possible. Choose an oil that is right for the mood you are trying to evoke. Will the oil heat up as you are massaging? Does it have a tingling sensation? Is it scented? Whatever you decide, be sure that your partner is not allergic to it. If you aren’t too confidence in your skills, practice some different stokes and touches on yourself. Remember, even if you fumble a little, your partner will be sure to love the thoughtfulness of your gift and the touch of your skin on theirs.


This type of gift definitely sends a message. There are so many great options to choose from in this category. There are amazingly discrete vibrators that can be worn as jewelry like the Vesper from Crave and great couples toys like We-Vibe‘s 4 Plus that can be shared. Think about what you want your gift to say, but know that either way, it is already a win-win.


What better way to get the blood pumping than some sexy lingerie. There is something about the delicate clothing against the skin. There are so many great items you can purchase your special someone whether it is a sexy lace thong, a silky robe, or crotchless panties. Let your partner know how sexy you think they are and be sure to volunteer assistance if they need help taking it off.

By: Megan Stubbs 

Holding degrees in Human Sexuality and Biology, Dr. Megan Stubbs is an energetic multi-media savvy Sexologist. She often hosts seminars, appears on television, speaks on radio and writes for many online and print publications. She believes that sex should be fun and uses her lighthearted, intelligent, and humorous delivery to make it happen.

Gift Idea from the Editor:

Hey Guys,

Feel like spicing up your bedroom session this holiday season? The only problem is, you haven’t started any sex-toys-1hr-delivery-wwwhotmeca-toronto-onholiday shopping and you’re in a bit of a bind. Visit Heat of the Moment Express. They provide same-day delivery for sex toys — often in under an hour. For the holidays, they are running a “Make it a Basket” promotion: you choose your favourite items online and they create a gift basket for that special someone. Every order comes with free condoms, batteries, lube samples, and a booklet of coupons for Toronto services. Consider Heat of the Moment Express your holiday lifesaver!