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November 9, 2015

A Peek Inside A Sex Club

I recently penned a piece on exploring sex in Toronto for Post City Magazines and have received a number of inquiries about so-called sex clubs since its publication. I decided to sit down with the owners and staff of The X Club to get some straight answers about what really happens at their local venue.


1. Do I have to be a member to enter the club?

We are a members-only club. We are very private, professional and confidential. We do have a Meet and Greet every third Friday of each month. Entrance is complimentary and no membership is required. This is for couples and single females who want to learn about the lifestyle and also see what The X Club has to offer. This event is from 8-9:30 p.m.

2. What are your most famous themed parties?

Every Saturday is a different theme at The X Club. The most famous themes I would have to say are our super parties which include, Glitter and Glow, White Night, Lingerie Valentines Ball, NYE, Halloween and our Anniversary party.

3. Do I have to be a part of the lifestyle to have a night out at X Club?

Many people who attend The X Club aren’t necessarily in the lifestyle. They come to be around the sexually charged environment and a respectful and friendly crowd. There is never any pressure for any of our members to be involved in any activities unless they choose to be. We have a strict policy that no means no.

unnamed-2-630x4273. What demographic do you cater to?

We have a wide variety of ages and preferences. That is the beauty of the lifestyle. It doesn’t matter who you are or how old you are. Everyone is friendly and non-judgemental.

4. What kind of music is played?

We have different themed nights which include different music genres. Fridays are more of our request night. Saturdays we play top 40’s, dance, hip hop and reggae. Our DJs specialize in the lifestyle, meaning that they play sexy and sensual music to create the sexy vibe and encourage the beautiful members to dance on the sexy stripper poles. We also have an EDM night.

5. What is involved with having a membership?

Every member has to sign a waiver agreeing to the policies of The X Club as well as pay $60 for the annual membership.


6. It’s a sex club, so does that mean I can have sex at the club? And will I see live sex on premises or are there private rooms where the magic happens?

There is sex on premises but in a private area from the club side. We have an area of 10 private rooms with different themes in each. (Rooms with windows to watch or be watched, BDSM room, black light room etc.)  This area is clothing optional. The open group play area consists of several large open beds including a large orgy room and a group play shower. This area you must be naked, in a towel or women in lingerie. We always encourage safe sex and provide unlimited condoms, lubrication, and wipes. We have welcoming lounge staff to assist with lockers and towels and answer any questions members might have. On the club side, it’s all about being sexually charged, flirting, dancing, dancing on the strip pole and girls having fun with girls.  No sexual activities are allowed on the club side.